tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8674951179732290098.post4303010207191073518..comments2023-05-31T06:00:58.305-04:00Comments on Adventures in SPD: Playgroup Bully?Juliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04195147094724742530noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8674951179732290098.post-12861322542635238562010-07-09T19:34:23.796-04:002010-07-09T19:34:23.796-04:00It isn't uncommon for kids like ours to not kn...It isn't uncommon for kids like ours to not know how to use 'their words'. Here is what I would do:<br /><br />* Sign him up for private social skills classes. They are fantastic -- if you need help finding one in your area, post on SensoryPlanet.com and someone will help!<br /><br />* Give him words to use. Actual scripted things to say when he is upset. Things he can remember and use.<br /><br />* Practice with him using social stories. <br /><br />* Choose your social outtings carefully with less children. Playgrounds might be too advanced for his social skill practice. Most classes suggest starting with one-to-one play dates where you can practice skills like sharing control during play. Step back a bit and start where he actually is, not where you would like for him to be socially. (We have NEVER been to a playgroup)<br /><br />* Be ready for a play date -- plan what you will do, and alternatives in case the friend isn't intersted. Having a goal in mind helps them to be productive and not just social hour for the adults. <br /><br />* Make sure you have followed your sensory diet before playdates (or groups) so he has the best chance at being calm and organized -- and able to practice social skills.<br /><br />OK, I can keep going, but I don't want to overwhelm you! LOL<br /><br />The best news? He sounds just normal to me. :) Hang in there -- you are doing great -- and so is he! (Even with a little kicking and hitting!)<br /><br />Hartley<br />www.hartleysboys.comHartleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02463016780946119637noreply@blogger.com